Children and pets often forge a deep and powerful bond for life and share a very special and meaningful relationship. They are best friends and companions who spend quality time together playing games, exercising, watching TV and listening to the radio, interacting with friends and other family members, sleeping, spending vacations and even on vacation together! It is increasingly common to see and treat our pets as beloved “members of the family,” and children are often delighted to have this non-threatening, non-combative “brother.” Children seem to understand that their animal companions love them just the way they are and that they don’t need to pretend to be someone they are not, or to look or dress in a certain way. Children can be themselves.

Children trust and trust their animal companions. They share their goals, dreams, secrets and confidences knowing that the pet will never betray or judge them. Children let their guard down and express their true feelings with a pet without fear of being fired, misunderstood, judged, blamed or criticized. They share a large part of their lives, which they could not or would not like to share with other human beings.

The loss of a beloved animal companion is often the first significant loss a child experiences. Although the child may lose a relative – or friend – the impact of this type of loss is not as devastating as the loss of someone who is trustworthy, devoted and unconditionally caring and who has always “been there” for him. . Like adults, children suffer and each child suffers differently and for a different period of time. Some children will withdraw or withdraw and become quiet and thoughtful. Others may get angry and “misbehave.” Others will not be able to focus or focus on homework and other tasks. Their pain depends on the depth and intensity of the relationship they had with the deceased pet. It can also depend on how many previous losses they have experienced. Like adults, children should be encouraged to understand, identify, that they are hurting, and express their genuine feelings openly and honestly.

Adults should encourage children to talk about their feelings. Adults can offer sympathy, empathy, and support, and they can help children understand that their feelings are normal, that it is natural and healthy to mourn losses of any kind. It helps to hold a funeral or memorial service and praise the pet with friends and family. Whenever possible, it is advisable to be factual and concrete. Reading books on pet loss together is also beneficial. Encourage the child to express his feelings by writing or singing or drawing the pet or putting together a photo album. The loss of a loved companion animal provides parents a wonderful opportunity to introduce children to the concepts of birth and death and the circle and cycles of life. Children should be encouraged to cry, honor and celebrate their pet’s life and, when ready, to adopt another wonderful animal companion.