It hasn’t quite sunk yet… His wife wants to leave him and file for a divorce.

YOU don’t want to, and YOU think the marriage can be saved.

You KNOW you’re not ready to throw in the towel on your marriage, no matter how bad things have gotten in the last few months.

If you want to know how you can change your wife’s mind and make her WANT to get back into her marriage, this is the article for you. If you can’t even begin to bear the thought of your wife walking out the door and never coming back, then throughout this article you will learn what you can do to change your mind and get her back.

Don’t worry, even if you can’t find what you’re looking for here, I’m telling you right now that there is hope for a better future.

No matter what you do from here, just remember that where there is a will, there is a way. Here are the most effective tips for getting your wife back to you when she wants to get divorced.

# 1. Remember that she has passed the point of rationality.

You must set a very clear goal to get your wife back, and it is not about changing your MIND. You see, at this point your wife is VERY beyond the point where she is going to be thinking with her brain.

At this point it’s all about your heart … So what should you do?

Instead of trying to alter the perception of your wife in her brain (or in other words: the way she thinks of you), focus on how she feels. You should aim to increase your wife’s emotional view of you, if that makes sense, and it’s not going to happen because of whatever arguments you make to her.

Basically, it will take a good romance to get your wife back, because that’s one of the only ways you’re going to be able to affect the REAL way she sees you; with your heart.

And don’t even think about trying to tell your wife all the tax benefits of being together, or “What would my parents say?” Or “What about the children?” Or something like that. At this point, for his wife, it’s all about her.

# 2. Think back to your early dating days.

Listen, if you and your wife have been married for some time, then chances are that at least a small part of your wife really DOESN’T want to be single again.

I mean, our society puts a LOT of pressure on women to secure a marriage while they are young, and that social pressure can often be manipulated to their advantage.

How?

Well, because it means that if your wife gets the chance, she will want to stay with you. You just have to make her HEART realize that she wants to stay. And how do you do it exactly? Well, you will have to start being much more flirtatious, charming and manly to her. Basically remind him why he married you.

Make it your goal for your wife to only think ONE second before leaving. As soon as you recognize even a hint of doubt about your decision, your job becomes MUCH easier. Trust me.

# 3. The real trick: make her want to come back

This is the hardest part of getting your wife back … making her want to get back into marriage. However, while this probably sounds impossible at this point, it has to happen before you can hope for a better marriage.

Just remember that there are a few select things you can do to prove to your wife that you are legit and make her start wanting to get back with you. If you can understand what things your wife is looking for and what exactly is causing her to leave, then you can make efforts to correct those problems / issues.

This alone will make your wife more likely to stay.

Just remember that a part of your wife used to love you. If you can reawaken that side of her, then your work is practically done for you.