Much information about bullying is available today on Internet websites. Still, even though today’s school systems, workplaces, and major organizations have done much to prevent and control bullying, many people still don’t know what bullying really is, nor do they recognize its subtle forms when they see it. To better recognize all types of bullying, here are 20 of its basic characteristics found in various articles and studies.

1. Predator. Serial bullying is predatory and sociopathic. This type of bullying generally has a dysfunctional, petty, psychiatric and cowardly psychic component.

2. Incurable. One in 30 people is a serial stalker (1% of the population). Most are incurable.

3. Dangerous. Truly dangerous serial bullying generally occurs in two phases:

  • First. A target is abusively controlled and subdued through isolation, manipulation, face down, backstabbing, criticism, degrading rumors, and direct or indirect pressure.
  • Second. The target is confronted, injured, destroyed, or eliminated in some way, often socially. This phase often occurs because the aggressor has gone too far with his behavior and feels the need to cover it up as much as possible.

Four. Effects edit do not always recognizable by others. Among adults, many people do not recognize the highly subtle or indirect bullying that occurs. For example, an adult may see a friend or colleague keep quiet and withdrawn, but may not realize that the friend or colleague is being abused by some form of bullying somewhere.

5. Cautious guys. In some cases, the targets themselves do not know for a long time that they are being harassed because acts of harassment are done slowly and carefully behind their backs in the form of preconceived judgments and stereotypes. That is, the so-called target or “frog” is boiled slowly so that it does not jump out of the hot water before it is too late. This type of harassment can be very organized if several types of bullies collaborate on a goal. In fact, this type could be called systematic harassment if it is intended to harm the target.

6. Bullying versus harassment. Bullying and harassment are similar, but not exactly the same. Bullying refers to the behavior itself at any age. It can be long-term and destructive to the goal. Bullying can also be destructive. However, bullying is usually a one-time incident, depending on the tolerance level of the target in question. Harassment refers to the civil and legal rights of the targets involved.

7. Lose one, find another. When a serial stalker loses a target or victim, they will find a new one in two weeks. Serial bullies need a target, a scapegoat, or a person to spank full time.

8. It can be a man or a woman. Male and female aggressors exist about 50/50 percent. However, women are bullied more often according to testimonies. Men might not admit them.

9. Male or female traits. Male bullies can be loud, downright blunt, trampling, bossy, and intimidating. Women can be discreetly subtle, indirectly forceful, or coercive and intimidating. Other bullies can be shy, cunning, and whiny, often faking their own victimization to exert power over their targets.

10. Lowbrow. Some bullies may not like things of a higher order. In particular, they may not like enlightenment, trust, faith, courage, reciprocity, integrity, true cooperation or teamwork, honesty, innovation, correct thinking, abilities and talents. , competition or the rights of others.

eleven. Selective. Bullies don’t intimidate everyone. They will harass only their selected targets for their own selective reasons. That trait makes smart bullies difficult to spot and control because they behave normally around most people and in public. Spousal harassment at home falls into this category.

12. Types of children. Young (child) bullies select their targets differently than adult bullies do. For example, a bullying child may lash out at someone just because of the mother’s emotional attention or momentary dominance. Adults can competitively bully for status, salary, and authority.

13. Criminally convicted. Bullies who have been habitual for a relatively lonely time will have a criminal conviction in their 30s.

14. Craves mental and emotional control. Bullies often focus on controlling or owning their target mentally and emotionally through fear and other tactics. They can stop at a single ability or vulnerability of a target. For example, a stalker may target someone simply out of jealousy of their good looks, social skills, or talents, especially if the targets have a hard time defending themselves.

fifteen. Inner projected needs. Bullies have different internal traits. For example, they tend to project their unmet inner needs onto others or, similarly, to take it out on others.

sixteen. Multiple faces and smart. Smart bullies can demonstrate multi-faceted chameleon personalities, capable of playing trouble both ways, playing various extremes against the middle, and changing their stories often. They also know how to exploit the darker and fearful side of the sideline watchers to get their help for intimidation purposes.

17. Braggarts. Bullies tend to show off. They claim successes, deals, relationships, and properties that don’t exist, and probably never did.

18. Good work resumes. Within the adult workforce, bullies often have shiny resumes, which is the only way their previous employers could get rid of them.

19. Disruptive. Bullies disrupt organizations by creating ill will, bad feelings, and misunderstandings. They can instigate layers of tangled networks through deception and false pretenses, which will eventually lead to unethical or criminal activity through their organizations. Businesses have been ruined by not being able to do anything with a key thug. In one case, a guitar maker had to witness the bankruptcy and bankruptcy of its business before the owner could regain control. This owner was lucky to get it back up and running.

twenty. Not stupid. Habitual or serial bullies are not dumb. They simply have a hard time understanding that their actions are unethical or illegal, or knowing that their petty and self-aggravating actions are not appreciated or respected by others. These types of bullies think that it is normal behavior to take what they want from whoever they want (who was carefully selected first) at any time they want without facing any consequences for doing so.