This dating advice is the result of my dating experiences of the last 5 years. I’ve been approached by thousands of women I didn’t know, hundreds of phone numbers, and countless dates. The main motivation for me was to get really good at dating. If you’re just looking for a partner who’s there for you, I guarantee you can make it. Although it will be simple to do, it will not be easy. This will require a lot of commitment and dedication on your part.

It will take some time before he finds a girlfriend. You will have to go through some failure too. That’s okay though, because this isn’t a Hollywood story. This is real life, and good things don’t happen without hard work and persistence. In other words, you will have to work on yourself before you can find that special someone and attract them.

This is a step by step guide that will clarify the process that will SURELY lead to improving your love life. I guarantee you will get a girlfriend if you follow this process.

1.) Get some dating material. When I was starting out I made the mistake of reading everything I could get my hands on. This led to “information paralysis.” I kept rereading different theories about what works and what doesn’t, instead of just going out and talking to girls to see for myself. I have read dozens of books on this subject and highly recommend Become an Alpha Male by John Alexander. There is a link to a review at the bottom of the page. I will emphasize that you have to USE the skills you learn about dating love advice.

2.) Decide on the goal you want to achieve. It can be, “find a girlfriend you have a genuine connection with.” Or you could have 2 new dates every week. Anything is good as long as it inspires you to achieve it. Commit to this goal for a long-term period of MINIMUM 12 months. Yes, that’s a long time, and yes, it will be challenging. That’s why you need to commit to the long term. You will be successful if you persist in the long term.

3.) Set daily goals that will lead you to achieve your main goal. Some examples are: having a conversation with 5 girls every day, talking on the phone with 5 girls, making a date with 5 girls every week, etc. Be sure to keep track of all these numbers. The numbers will show you if you are improving or slacking off!

In case you’re not slacking off, but you’re still not seeing the results you really want, one way to boost your results is to get John Alexander’s Become an Alpha Male. Talk about specific things you need to change in your life in order to naturally attract beautiful women.

4.) Don’t give up no matter what. If getting a girlfriend is the most important thing to you right now, there’s no reason why you can’t do it. It doesn’t matter how you look, it doesn’t matter if you have money or not. Attracting women is a skill. Just like playing basketball or drawing.