The First Realm of Love – The Physical Realm

Love you. I love your look. I have to have you in my life. I can not live without you. I am desperate for you. You are everything I’ve ever dreamed of and more. I am turned on by you, and therefore, I cannot live without you. You are perfect. I am yours and you are mine. You are not to blame. I can’t think of any reason why our love shouldn’t last. I want to possess you, marry you, possess you. I give my life for you. I’m in love with you.

I know this is very loaded. I am blinded by this love. I will throw away my dreams, my passions and my ambitions just to be with you. I also know, as people have warned me, that this love, this passion, this fire is unsustainable, but I am blind. I am blinded by my excitement and the chemistry that runs through my veins. I’ve been warned, but my life was hell before I met you, and now it’s heaven. Oh, even just for this day, this love, this fire, this foolishness, it’s worth it.

Passion is physical, impulses are uncontrollable. The problem is that it cannot last, it destroys your life when it breaks and there is really no way to avoid it. This is the lowest, and later the most extreme, level of love.

The second kingdom of Love – My mind

Love you. I think like you. Our dreams are so similar. I believe what you believe and I think what you think. I know we are right in our way of life. We are on common ground, we live by this code, and this code is ours. We agree, we like the same paintings, we like the same vacations. We are of the same mind, we are in love.

I’ve told people they should be like you. They must be good and they must be happy. I have told siblings, friends and family what they should be doing. Now that I’ve met you, there’s no need, because we agree. We agree that the world should be as we dream it should be.

This level of love is so intellectual. It is based on ideals. If you fit my image I love you, if not I hate you. This is religious love. Fair and conditional. There are so many expectations at this level that one of the two has to be submissive and therefore inevitably resent it. This is the typical Western good citizen relationship. A perfect lie.

The third kingdom of love – Emotion

Love you. I cry when I think of you. I write these love poems for you; poems that express this romance, this beauty, this feeling so deep inside of me. From the moment I met you I knew I loved you. I felt it deep in my core. I’m sad without you, I’m angry if I can’t be with you. I feel good with you, you make me happy, I want you close to me all the time because you make me feel so good, I need you in my life.

You are my sun, my morning, each one of my breaths. You are the dew on my skin and the sun in my heart. I breathe you in, and these roses, this gift, this food, this wine, this touch on your shoulder, send shivers down my spine. I have your photograph close to my heart and I celebrate you with happiness. I’ll wait for your call.

I’m sorry for my reaction when you came home late. I’m sorry for being angry. I can’t help it. I feel so wonderful and I feel so vulnerable. I feel you when I walk. Oh my love, may this feeling, this romance, last forever between us. I’m sorry for those changes in my mood. They are totally inexplicable. Oh my love, be mine forever.

The joy is uncontrollable, the surrender is complete, the love feels fused and moving. This level of love is fascinating. Two lovers will fall into each other’s arms and the romance is wonderful. Great vacations and great idea, great romantic nights and more. However, emotion has no substance. The same emotion that drives a couple to this love is the same emotion that burns them, or draws them to each other. Emotional people cannot maintain integrity. Emotions are environmental reactions. Never trust emotion. (or emotional people)

The fourth kingdom of love – The heart

Love you. Whether you come or go in my life, I love you. It doesn’t matter if you are well or ill, for better or for worse, for richer or poorer, every day of my life. I’ll love you. I will love you no matter what happens. I’ll love you. I know I love you. you and I are in love It’s destiny, we are friends for life, I love you.

I want you to be happy my love. Yes, why don’t you travel and see the world? Why don’t you move to Africa and work? I’ll always be here for you. I want the family to be happy. I care a lot about you. I want to hold you close, keep you warm. I want your life to be wonderful, and even more wonderful because of me.

I’m happy that you’re walking away from me. Yes, we are close friends. We have achieved a wonderful depth in our love, so much so that you feel like my sister, or brother or something. I want you to be happy, and our friendship is vital. We can work together, be friends forever.

I’m a little sorry that the romance has disappeared from our relationship. That we’re such wonderful friends is amazing, but I really hoped we’d still be passionate. We moved away from that passion that we had when we met. Maybe we should have spent more time playing. I love you always, my love and my friend, forever.

The beauty of this love is that it is honoring. Honor individuality. He honors himself, this love is based on independence. It is the domain of pain, fear, the master of the self-created ego that calls for spiritual or self-actualization. People at this level of love are always alone, despite being convinced that they are capable of loving unconditionally. There is simply no surrender here.

The fifth kingdom of love – Devotion

Love you. Deep in my heart I have known that one day I would find you. I knew there was a lover, somewhere, whose life mission, whose life passion would intertwine with mine to create something magnificent on this earth. We are like two musicians whose life purpose apart quadruples in value together.

We will serve our mission in life together. You bring gifts and I bring gifts and with these together, our highest calling will be to share them with the world. I deeply love you; I celebrate with you the four kingdoms of love, and now, this, our purpose in life.

This is more than me, this is more than you, this is sacred, our purpose together. We can do what we love in life and share that journey together. Thank you for opening your heart and your life to me. We are united by more than a contract of intimacy and love; we are bound by our commitment to something greater than the two of us. I dedicate my love to you, I know that this way we will give what we were born to give. My love is eternal, thank you.

This relationship seems to lack the physical growl and bombshell of lovers in love. But these two people love each other because they live, work and share the journey of life together. You must be careful to ensure that you do not drift through life and forget those lower levels of love that are required as a foundation for life.

The sixth kingdom of love – Inspired

Love you. Oh stillness of the night, may my mind be calm, my soul happy, may my love become one with yours. We were two, we are one. We bond on all levels, from the physical and romantic to the emotional and fantasy. But above all, we join the light.

I walk with you, no matter where you go. I sleep with you no matter what you know. I am with you, always, awake or asleep; this is my eternal love. More than a promise, it is real. I know your breath, I know your heart. I am not far away, I am in your thoughts, in your kingdom, we are one and we are bound.

Know me my love and you will know yourself. Immerse yourself each day through excitement and challenge and at any time you choose, you will find me. Choose love and here I am. It is a step further, but more real than you think. Let me hug you without arms, let me touch you without sound, look at me without eyes, I am you, we are one, in love.

There is no me, me, or you at this level of love. It is a rare relationship that reaches this level. Too many distractions, dragged to lower realms by ego, by fear and the search for God. This level of love is only for those who are ready to give themselves over to something sacred and make their relationship the pinnacle of their spiritual and religious journey. Religious and guru-worshiping people cannot reach this level of love in relationship.

The Seventh Kingdom – Unconditional Love

Love you. Empty. I can’t know the time. Love you. Empty. I cannot know space. You’re not in shape, although I know your love. You’re not in the sound, though I hear your call. We are one soul, one love, one now.

Beyond the realms where voices speak, we are bound tighter than lovers who cry. We sit mindlessly; we sit down at that moment and get to know each other. I recognize you when I see mountains so high, a lake so still, a wind so kind. I know you when nature reminds me, I am loved, I am loved, I am loved.

I look at the stars and there you are. I look at the moon; it’s not that far I look at nothing, at the beauty of everything, and there you are, not that far. Invisible, I can see you in the beauty of the simplest world. Never until now. Never until now.

The third mind, the soul, the human spirit does not know the sense of self, of the other, of good or evil. He is mesmerized by the beauty of existence and is therefore beyond the limit of distraction. The glimpse of infinity is found in this realm of love. Lovers rise for seconds to this place in orgasm. The sacred relationship holds that it is the most powerful truth.

Synopsis of the Sacred Love Chapter, a book about relationships that last forever.