Even if you’ve broken up with your girlfriend and find out that you want her back, know that it’s not impossible. While it may take some time to secure a change of heart where she is concerned, it’s not hard to succeed! Here are some tips that can help you attract your girl after a breakup.

don’t play the blame game
It would never work if you constantly blame her. She’s probably sick and tired of her charges. If you keep pointing out her flaws and her flaws, she will never come back to you. Also, you should be able to love her just the way she is, not criticize her every move!

Let him know that you intend to move on with your life.
Sometimes it’s a good idea to pretend you don’t care about the breakup. If you show your ex girlfriend that you intend to move on with your life by making new friends, dating other girls, and looking fabulous, you just might make her jealous enough to come back!

be kind and loving
Ex-girlfriends expect their ex-boyfriends to be mean and nasty to them. Your ex definitely does not expect you to be nice, gentle and loving towards her and if you do just that, he will be shocked and surprised. Also, you will melt her heart with your forgiving and affectionate nature. She will start to be more forgiving in return.

Be informal and don’t stop getting to know her.
It would be a good idea to be casual with her. Running away from her or completely ignoring her won’t help, as it shows that you feel hurt and affected by her even now. The best course of action would be to talk to her in a casual but friendly way that makes her wonder if you’re over her. This will make her resent the fact that she has no control over you and she will want to win you back.

Look elegant and sexy
If she thought you were handsome and attractive when you first met, she should take a good look at the new you! Be determined to surprise her with her new personality and appearance. Wear clothes that accentuate your best features and work on that personality! You’ll surprise her enough to come back to you in a heartbeat!

Speak well of her with mutual friends.
If you show her that you have no hard feelings and that you are mature enough to handle the current situation well, she will surely be impressed by you. Speak nicely of her to mutual friends who are obligated to tell her what you said. Praise and compliment her and she’ll think well of you too!

Admit your faults and promise to make up for them!
The fastest way to melt his heart is to apologize and admit your wrongdoing. This will make her admire your humility. If you can promise to make up for all the wrong you caused her by doing something very special for her, she’ll automatically find herself eager to do it!